Saturday, October 4, 2008
♥ WHY i ALWAYS END UP iNVOLVED iN SOME DRAMA?!
So yeah, this past week ain't been too eventful. Just a whole buncha bullshit ass homework for school that my ass STILL aint do yet! lol but yesterday I decided to be the good friend that I am and go get one of my homegirls who has been havin issues with her peoples cuz she told me her popz hit her. AND i. DON'T. PLAY. THAT. especially since she got 2 kids like me. But see the whole deal was, originally she was supposed to call me around SIX PM and THAT'S when I was gonna get her, told my man and erythang but plans changed and he ended up hittin her AGAIN so that's why I came early. but the plan was when I got there that she was finna call her man who "supposedly" got off work @ 12 and I would drop her at his crib. You think that shit went down like that?? HELL NAW. So I'm like ok, you know I got 2 kids and right now I'm stayin with my mama & she don't really like people at her house...so you HAVE to find him soon or imma have to take you somewhere else. So she like "that's cool. it won't be too long" Well I'll be damned if it wasn't THAT long. I got her at 11:45am, and mind you that I had to leave MY daughter at the crib with my moms(who wasn't too happy about that to begin with) so I would be able to fit her 2 bebe's kids in my car.
[side note] don't get me wrong, she my homegirl and erythang, but this chick aint got her shit together and with me havin 2 kids myself and ME being able to pull it off (with my hubby's help) i'll be DAMNED if imma be someone ELSE'S mama 'cept to my OWN!! [end side note]
Well when I get there, she talmbout she ain't got her daughter and that her crazy ass father took off with her daughter not even 5 mins. before I got there. She asked me to wait til they got back. I told her respectfully that I couldn't. (considering she live 35 mins away from where I live and that was ALREADY a hike.) So we left, I asked her what she was finna do about the situation, and she kinda brushed it off.
[side note #2] This is the same girl, who a year ago ABANDONED her daughter, leaving her with her CRAZY ass peoples and I stopped fuckin with her cuz point.blank.PERIOD. there was ABSOLOUTLY NO EXCUSE for her wreckless behavior and having only 1 child myself at the time pissed me the fuck off about why she did that shit, BUT BUT BUT, I pushed all that shit aside 6 months later when she came back and told me she realized she was wrong and really DID want her baby but I'm the type to forgive but NEVER forget so pls believe when this shit started again I REMEMBERED. [end side note #2]
She called her man & WHATTAYAKNOW???? NO ANSWER. She assured me that he would call back ASAP. And i TOLD her that if he didn't she had to be gone from my house BEFORE my man got home from work (cuz he don't like her ass but can you blame him??? he ain't as forgiving as me) at 5. Well what do you know 5 o'clock rolled around and this bitch was STILL HERE. I told her he was gonna be mad at me cuz he ain't know shit about this, but only of the original plan and he said he woulda left the house for an hour or 2 til her sister came to get her. Well do you think this bitch had any reguards to my man or his feelings??? HELL NAW. So MY man couldn't come back home after his LONG ass day at work and was driving around until this bitch finally got the fuck out. EIGHT LONG ASS HOURS LATER & AFTER ME CUSSIN HER THE FUCK OUT, her sister FINALLY came and she did get the fuck out.
Now she told me that as soon as she got to her man (WHICH NEVER ENDED UP HAPPENiNG) she was finna give me some gas money(which ALSO never ended up happening because she "CONViENENTLY" ain't have no money on her, BULLSHIT!) but she did pull out a blackberry that she said i could have cuz she aint have t-mobile anymore so I was like cool, ok. but OH NO NO NO. I had to go buy a charger for it cuz also conviently she ain't have that either. So i go buy one and LMFAOOOOOOOO that shit DID NOT CHARGE. SHIT WAS BROKE.
So that is it. That is the END of my MF niceness to these scandalous ass TRIFILIN ASS HOES who don't got they shit together. My man say I'm too nice, I say it's because I was once in those kinda sit-chi-ations and my girls were there for me (NOT HER i just thought it'd be nice to help out a mama like myself) but this bullshit just ended it all. I got TWO KIDS. TWO!!!! I'm not finna sit her and scream I struggle b/c I don't. My kids got food in they tummy's clothes on they back & a roof over they heads as well as me & my man so I don't know first hand what it's like for all these single mama's out here but I know ya'll strong and I commend ya'll!!! (but mind YOU she IS NOT. her man is just a TRIF ass excuse for a GROWN ASS 27 yr old MAN) but GOT DAMN! I gotta put my kids, my man and MYSELF first from now on. I don't have drama in my life, that shit was DEADED when they put that high school diploma in my hands so pls believe you me i am TOO grown for the shit. I met her in highschool & that is OBVIOUSLY where she need to stay in my life IN.MY.PAST.
Now tell me I'm wrong. I have done SO much shit for this bitch INCLUDING giving her my daughter's old carseat for her daughter AND my old infant carseat for her newborn son. &&&&& this is NOT the first time i have gone out of my way to get her and do shit for her. Not to mention all the clothes I have given to not only the kids but clothes for HER ass. FUCK THAT. shit pisses me off even writing how nice I been to this hoe. UGH. this is WHY I only got ONE best friend. ONE. cuz she my road dawg, my potna in crime & pls BELIEVE she would never do me like this nor I to her. bitches. FUCK EM!!!!
That's all I got for ya'll now. I promise to get to puttin up the other shit I wrote in my last blog!!
HAWLERRRRR =D
[side note] don't get me wrong, she my homegirl and erythang, but this chick aint got her shit together and with me havin 2 kids myself and ME being able to pull it off (with my hubby's help) i'll be DAMNED if imma be someone ELSE'S mama 'cept to my OWN!! [end side note]
Well when I get there, she talmbout she ain't got her daughter and that her crazy ass father took off with her daughter not even 5 mins. before I got there. She asked me to wait til they got back. I told her respectfully that I couldn't. (considering she live 35 mins away from where I live and that was ALREADY a hike.) So we left, I asked her what she was finna do about the situation, and she kinda brushed it off.
[side note #2] This is the same girl, who a year ago ABANDONED her daughter, leaving her with her CRAZY ass peoples and I stopped fuckin with her cuz point.blank.PERIOD. there was ABSOLOUTLY NO EXCUSE for her wreckless behavior and having only 1 child myself at the time pissed me the fuck off about why she did that shit, BUT BUT BUT, I pushed all that shit aside 6 months later when she came back and told me she realized she was wrong and really DID want her baby but I'm the type to forgive but NEVER forget so pls believe when this shit started again I REMEMBERED. [end side note #2]
She called her man & WHATTAYAKNOW???? NO ANSWER. She assured me that he would call back ASAP. And i TOLD her that if he didn't she had to be gone from my house BEFORE my man got home from work (cuz he don't like her ass but can you blame him??? he ain't as forgiving as me) at 5. Well what do you know 5 o'clock rolled around and this bitch was STILL HERE. I told her he was gonna be mad at me cuz he ain't know shit about this, but only of the original plan and he said he woulda left the house for an hour or 2 til her sister came to get her. Well do you think this bitch had any reguards to my man or his feelings??? HELL NAW. So MY man couldn't come back home after his LONG ass day at work and was driving around until this bitch finally got the fuck out. EIGHT LONG ASS HOURS LATER & AFTER ME CUSSIN HER THE FUCK OUT, her sister FINALLY came and she did get the fuck out.
Now she told me that as soon as she got to her man (WHICH NEVER ENDED UP HAPPENiNG) she was finna give me some gas money(which ALSO never ended up happening because she "CONViENENTLY" ain't have no money on her, BULLSHIT!) but she did pull out a blackberry that she said i could have cuz she aint have t-mobile anymore so I was like cool, ok. but OH NO NO NO. I had to go buy a charger for it cuz also conviently she ain't have that either. So i go buy one and LMFAOOOOOOOO that shit DID NOT CHARGE. SHIT WAS BROKE.
So that is it. That is the END of my MF niceness to these scandalous ass TRIFILIN ASS HOES who don't got they shit together. My man say I'm too nice, I say it's because I was once in those kinda sit-chi-ations and my girls were there for me (NOT HER i just thought it'd be nice to help out a mama like myself) but this bullshit just ended it all. I got TWO KIDS. TWO!!!! I'm not finna sit her and scream I struggle b/c I don't. My kids got food in they tummy's clothes on they back & a roof over they heads as well as me & my man so I don't know first hand what it's like for all these single mama's out here but I know ya'll strong and I commend ya'll!!! (but mind YOU she IS NOT. her man is just a TRIF ass excuse for a GROWN ASS 27 yr old MAN) but GOT DAMN! I gotta put my kids, my man and MYSELF first from now on. I don't have drama in my life, that shit was DEADED when they put that high school diploma in my hands so pls believe you me i am TOO grown for the shit. I met her in highschool & that is OBVIOUSLY where she need to stay in my life IN.MY.PAST.
Now tell me I'm wrong. I have done SO much shit for this bitch INCLUDING giving her my daughter's old carseat for her daughter AND my old infant carseat for her newborn son. &&&&& this is NOT the first time i have gone out of my way to get her and do shit for her. Not to mention all the clothes I have given to not only the kids but clothes for HER ass. FUCK THAT. shit pisses me off even writing how nice I been to this hoe. UGH. this is WHY I only got ONE best friend. ONE. cuz she my road dawg, my potna in crime & pls BELIEVE she would never do me like this nor I to her. bitches. FUCK EM!!!!
That's all I got for ya'll now. I promise to get to puttin up the other shit I wrote in my last blog!!
HAWLERRRRR =D
Labels: the end of my niceness, trifilin ass hoes, unecessary drama
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